I don't really want to do either job in this exchange, but I know which one is really the hardest.
Note: I'm note posting this on Facebook because so many "mommy" friends are there. If you have access to my Fb and this blog, chances are real good that you are a friend who is a mom, not a "mommy" friend. I like my friends--all of them--but that site is a healthy reminder that screaming babies and discussions of episiotomies are not really what makes the rest of the world roll witcha. And also...I'm SO GLAD that Sparky is past the stage of poopy-butt. Now he's just poopy-brained sometimes. ;-)