It's a sad song...

...but I'm only doing the bits that aren't so sad, and therefore that apply more usefully:

Have fun
And if you can't have fun
Have someone else's fun
'cause someone sure had mine
They came in
Now they're having a whale of a time

...

Take heart
And if you can't take heart
Take someone else's heart

...

'cause you're the queen of sadness
The princess of the house of pain

...

Have fun

"Have Fun" The Beautiful South

I don't really want to be the Queen of Sadness. I'll just have fun--mine, yours, ours--instead.